Annoying Husbands/ Boyfriends.
I've heard many women complaining that their partners aren't sharing the same passion as them when trying to conceive (TTC). It can be frustrating when your partner says he's too tired or isn't in the mood especially when he knows how much TTC means to you. The most important thing is not to get stressed about it. Don't let it plague your mind, because when you are trying for a baby, stress is the last thing you need on your plate.
A lot of men don't understand or share the same passion for trying to have a baby and to put it simply, it's probably because women are the ones who go all out when TTC. For example we will go and buy softcups, chart our cycles, buy ovulation prediction kits, chart our basal body temperature (BBT) etc. and because we do all of this, the experience of TTC is much for intense for women as desperation, frustration and impatience creep in regularly.
It's easy for women to get frustrated at their partners for not committing to TTC as much as they should be, but don't get upset. Instead, the most effective thing you can do is talk to him and let him know how upset you are about his lack of enthusiasm towards TTC.
The other vital thing to remember is try not to make sex a chore because sometimes we can indirectly cause men to be put off sex when we keep on mentioning babies and TTC. If you get angry with him, he will more than likely get angry with you and it will become a vicious and unnecessary cycle. Remember that you're not alone with how you're feeling. Many women get emotional and upset because of their partner's lack of willingness towards TTC. Try and make sex interesting and try different things to make it more exciting for the both of you. You might find that he sees TTC as less of a chore if you spice things up a bit!
A lot of men don't understand or share the same passion for trying to have a baby and to put it simply, it's probably because women are the ones who go all out when TTC. For example we will go and buy softcups, chart our cycles, buy ovulation prediction kits, chart our basal body temperature (BBT) etc. and because we do all of this, the experience of TTC is much for intense for women as desperation, frustration and impatience creep in regularly.
It's easy for women to get frustrated at their partners for not committing to TTC as much as they should be, but don't get upset. Instead, the most effective thing you can do is talk to him and let him know how upset you are about his lack of enthusiasm towards TTC.
The other vital thing to remember is try not to make sex a chore because sometimes we can indirectly cause men to be put off sex when we keep on mentioning babies and TTC. If you get angry with him, he will more than likely get angry with you and it will become a vicious and unnecessary cycle. Remember that you're not alone with how you're feeling. Many women get emotional and upset because of their partner's lack of willingness towards TTC. Try and make sex interesting and try different things to make it more exciting for the both of you. You might find that he sees TTC as less of a chore if you spice things up a bit!
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